Unfulfilled expectations and broken hearts.. Some of us have had this experience in life .
So many foreigners who visit Ukraine to meet future wife have to come back home without any results. Or even worse when being in love with a beautiful lady who does not share the same feelings and behaves as a consumer or a demander.. Why do foreigners get so fast into this trouble ? I will lead out the core of the problem into this post..
When you arrive in Ukraine you easily “go crazy” from so many beauties walking down street salone or sitting in restaurants or bars smiling and feeling like to meet new people . There are many different activities in Kiev with a big number of beauties. After seeing all this you will probably get lost meeting new ladies every day and cannot stop seeing them just because you are eager to see a better one than yesterday . And it will continue right up to the day you have to leave for home.
When you get back home, none of all those beauties contact you. No message or even a sms. Again you are feeling lonely ..as no one likes to invest time on correspondence with you..
To build a relationship there must be a huge interest to get to know a person as this requires spending energy and time. And now there’s an important question - Why do you think that the lady you met in a restaurant or bar would be willing to spend energy on you ??? Only because of a couple of dates together and she looked happy enough and smiled to you ?? She simply spent a good time as she was in a particular place for that … bar , café , restaurant , places where people entertain themselves.. no other goals.. So don’t expect from a woman you’re entertaining to take some serious steps towards you as it seems quite logical..
When you arrive in Ukraine you and start your dating the most important thing is to select a person with high priorities to create a serious relationship. What does it mean ? It means you will not find your future lady in any entertainment places or accidentally on a street.. your chances are equal like you playing in a casino . Unless you live in Ukraine for a longer period of time . In this case you have more chances to meet a nice lady, but still it depends where you go to meet them.
It is very important to know what are your clear expectations from a trip to Ukraine.
Vacation ? - means entertainment .. So enjoy your time in Kiev but don’t be sad because no serious relationship comes up. .
A trip on purpose to meet a wife? -Don’t go straight to bars to look for ladies... you’d better go to a bar with your future life partner and enjoy time there together..
If you go on a trippurposely and you have a clear goal to find a life parter in the most appropriate place for this – Marriage Agencies . In a good marriage agency ladies have to fill in an application form and take interview for registration and show documents as the representative of agency takes responsibility .They have to know what people they take to the database they offer then.
Some agencies charge ladies .. in this case if you meet someone and she will spend with you a couple of dates to get to know you it means she is interested and your meetings can lead to a great common future...
But I know well, even you understand this and after reading all my posts you still will go to discos and will stare on younger girls in a super short dress with a deep neckline..men cannot do anything with them, it’s nature and this is totally normal , that means that you are healthy.
Believe in marriage agencies there are beauties that really exist you just need to spend more time to find her and the intention of the lady will be serious and this is the most important thing to create a relationship.
Visiting discos this is deal of one day when you are surrounded by beauties - No agencies in between all is free of cost . Only you and girls... but nothing good will happen with this...Don't waste your precious time trying your luck .
My advice is before planning your visit to Kiev, find a Marriage Agency beforehand. Make all you meetings fixed before you are arriving. For this you need to send them your photos and information about you . So they can start spreading your profile to a data.. and schedule meeting for time of your arrival.
If that is possible ask the Marriage Agency to introduce you to ladies via Skype before you fly down to Kiev . That is super to get to know a person, communicate and come closer to each other before a real meeting... and my dear friend here’s a very important info for you – if ladies tell that she doesn’t have a Skype or time to Skype you before you visit, that means she is not much interested in you and time investing in relationship ...that is a bad sign... I’ve seen many cases of ladies who were interested in men, they even took 2 hours off work in order to go online for a Skype meeting.. as her intentions are serious..
Before you visit to Ukraine, arrange your meetings + Skype calls..
Do not be tempted by a meeting at a disco or bars..or some meetings by chance on a street.. Focus on a lady with high priorities to create a relationship in this particular time..
I could make this post too long .. but I don’t like talking about problems as I prefer talking about the solution and happiness.. I would be glad to analyse your situation and give the best advice .. any of us have point A and like to arrive to point B , so I have to know what is your point A to tell how to arrive to point B with less loss.
I welcome anyone who’s dreaming to find a future wife in Ukraine for free online Skype consultation for 1 hour . For booking your time email me on firstname.lastname@example.org
Wish you a great day !
Your professional dating coach , Kateryna Lishchuk.
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